How Your Family's Quiet Wisdom Became Global AI Data

How Your Family's Quiet Wisdom Became Global AI Data
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Exploring the invisible human history encoded in algorithms.

I remember my grandmother had three strict rules about money that she never wrote down, but lived by:

Never pay interest for consumption; never buy something you can make; and always have a small "hidden stash" of cash somewhere safe at home.

For her, this wasn't financial planning; it was wisdom forged by scarcity and decades of living through volatile times. Her advice was singular, local, and fiercely biased towards caution and self-sufficiency. It was knowledge optimised for a specific context, a context that no longer exists for most of us.

Here’s the paradox: That quiet, subjective wisdom - along with millions of other localised family stories, recipes, and cultural norms - is now actively living inside the large language models (LLMs) that define our future.

We tend to think of AI data as dry, objective spreadsheets. The reality is that the internet is saturated with narrative data: scanned newspaper articles, digitised books, forum conversations, personal blogs, and recorded local histories. When an AI learns, it synthesises the collective financial advice of experts, but also the frugal tips from old manuals, and the encoded wisdom (and biases) of my grandmother’s generation.

The real danger isn't malicious data; it’s the soft bias we inherited.

My grandmother's rule about never taking credit, while historically sound, becomes a technical challenge when encoded into a global financial advisory model. The AI doesn't understand why the advice was originally given (unstable banking). It only knows that the advice was statistically prevalent in historical texts. It strips the story of its context but carries its weight.

When we ask an LLM for advice, we are engaging in a conversation with the world’s largest library of digitised human history. The AI's answer is an echo of our collective past, filtered, blended, and delivered with a veneer of mathematical objectivity. The wisdom feels familiar and trustworthy precisely because it contains threads of our own ancestral biases. And because the AI is persuasive and scalable, the single subjective data point from a small village is no longer local. It is global.

The Product Paradox, for us as strategists, is recognizing that our products are not just lines of code; they are cultural artefacts.

Our job as strategists is not to teach AI to be smart, but to ensure we feed it the kind of diverse, ethical, and collaborative "stories" that make a community thrive. We are not just training algorithms; we are building the neural network of the future village.

Ciprian Dragomir

Ciprian Dragomir

Product strategist exploring how real products are built—across tech, industry and services. Blending systems thinking, human insight and paradoxes from the field to shape better decisions and better products.
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